Knowing your partner disapproves of your pregnancy can feel overwhelming. Perhaps his reaction was a surprise, or maybe you have been thinking about this hypothetical scenario for a while.
No matter your situation, know that your feelings are valid. Wondering where to find support can be stressful, but know you are not alone. La Luz Women’s Center will walk alongside you as you develop a support system and decide what’s next.
We’re here to talk if you need a nonjudgmental place to work through your situation. Keep reading to learn how to navigate this time—and how we can help.
Assess Your Situation
It is possible that your partner doesn’t support your pregnancy because he is still processing his emotions. With time, you may find that he’s willing to revisit the conversation, talk through your options, and be the support you seek.
However, if you are in an abusive relationship and your partner is expressing his disapproval of your pregnancy news, remember that your safety is the priority. Domestic violence during pregnancy can have serious outcomes for you and your baby. Nothing you say, do, or believe is ever a justification for abuse.
If you are being abused, contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline for 24/7 support and resources. You deserve healing and safety.
Identify a Support System & Set Boundaries
Remember, you are in control. No one has the right to pressure you into making a decision you’re uncomfortable with, and you deserve to review your options and determine your next steps without added expectations.
Setting clear boundaries is crucial. This way, your partner knows you can’t be swayed, and he will also be aware of the support you need during this time. Not receiving the help you want can be challenging, especially if his reaction was unexpected. However, you aren’t alone.
La Luz Women’s Center will help you develop a strong support system. In addition to gathering valuable information about your pregnancy with an ultrasound, we’ll discuss your options. By learning about parenting, adoption, and abortion in a loving, compassionate environment, you’ll find clarity and can make decisions with confidence.
We know things can feel difficult right now. No matter your circumstances, we are here for you.
No-Cost Services
Here, you can find the clarity you seek and a supportive community ready to help you process your unexpected pregnancy, learn about your options, and more.
Schedule a no-cost, confidential appointment today. You are not alone.
